Why Confidence Is the Most Undervalued Skill in Accounting
It’s not Excel shortcuts or tax law updates that make or break your career. It’s confidence. And for women in accounting, that confidence is often the hardest thing to hold onto.
In this week’s podcast, Nicole Kehl and Mayumi Young take a deep dive into the emotional landscape of women in accounting. They talk candidly about why so many high-performing professionals still feel like they’re not “good enough,” and what we can do to change that narrative.
The Confidence Gap is Real
Mayumi shares a powerful insight: the accounting profession wasn’t built for women. It was designed by and for men over 100 years ago—and much of the structure hasn’t changed. This disconnect often leaves women feeling like they’re not measuring up, even when they’re excelling.
Add to that the internalized pressure to be a “perfect woman”—a composite of every Disney princess, mother, and boss we’ve ever admired—and you’ve got a recipe for chronic comparison and self-doubt.
Why We Undervalue Ourselves
This lack of confidence often shows up in practical ways, like not charging what we’re worth. Mayumi opens up about her own struggles pricing her services, even decades into her career. Despite her vast experience, she still has to remind herself of her value—and relies on her support system to help check her mindset.
It’s a reminder that confidence isn’t a destination. It’s a practice.
Redefining Confidence
So what does true confidence look like? According to Mayumi, it’s grounded, rooted in self-awareness, and deeply authentic. It doesn’t come from accolades or titles. It comes from knowing who you are, what you bring to the table, and being willing to keep showing up.
She also draws a powerful distinction between confidence and arrogance: one is magnetic, the other is repelling. The key difference? Confidence leaves space for others to shine too.
You Are Already Enough
If you’re a CPA, you didn’t get there by accident. You’ve already overcome obstacles, figured things out, and proven your capability. You just need to remember it. Mayumi’s advice: do an inventory of your wins. Use those as evidence to reinforce your belief in yourself.
“Just the presence of the desire is evidence of your ability to fulfill it.”
Feeling inspired? Join a supportive community of women who believe in you at https://cpamoms.com/start.